Aleksandra Trkulja

Aleksandra Trkulja

Certified Sex Therapist & Clinical Counsellor

Aleks (she/her) is a certified sex therapist and clinical counsellor working in private practice on Gadigal land (Sydney).

She specialises in issues of sex, relationships, body image, and mental health. Working with individuals, and couples her practice is person-centred, and informed by intersectional feminist, and queer frameworks.

She is proudly bi-cultural, brown, and bi-sexual.

Solo Sex: How to Self Pleasure Well

Sex therapist and Youtimer Aleksandra Trkulja encourages you to remove the goal from masturbation and slow down your solo sex practice to deepen your connection with self.


Noteworthy Reads

How to Build Your Self-Soothing Kit

- 5 minute read

Therapist Aleksandra Trkulja shares her methods to regulate your nervous system, and ground yourself when faced with stressors, using the five senses of sight, smell, sound, taste and touch.

Let's Talk About Libido

- 4 minute read

One of the most common issues sex therapist Aleksandra Trkulja sees in female identifying clients is a loss of sexual desire. If this is you, you're not alone. Here, we explain why desire fluctuates and how to manage a loss of libido.

Have 'Taboo' Kinks and Desires? How to Talk to Your Partner About It

- 4 minute read

Communicating your personal preferences in bed can make you feel nervous, embarrassed or fearful of rejection. Here is how to approach kinks and desires, and how to receive your lovers - without judgement.

Pleasure Mapping: A Guide to Learning What You Like

- 4 minute read

Sex Therapist and Youtimer Aleksandra Trkulja takes the scary out of the sex conversation and talks us through learning what feels good for you.

Shame and Sexuality

- 4 minute read

Shame can be associated with sexual preference, orientation, function, fantasy, and more. Aleksandra Trkulja breaks down why we experience it and how to face up to it.

Aleks's Top Picks


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